Find Your Confidence!

Find Your Confidence!


Being confident is key to having a life full of positivity and also key to strength to move forward in life and aim for success. The main keys to finding your confidence are:

Say NO to Negativity:

You may have doubts lurking in your head and thoughts of whether you are good enough or not but it's time for you to block all of these thoughts. 
Negativity is like gravity that is pulling you down not allowing you to fly high and aim for your success.
The farther you are from negativity, you will realize that you are happier.

Likes and Comments DON'T Matter:

The number of likes or comments you get on social media does not define who are. Having a lifestyle of counting or competing with the number of likes or comments you get is very toxic. 
The people liking your picture or posts don't even care about asking you about how are you and how is life going on. 
Live in reality more than virtually because with a blink of an eye those people you call 'friends' can turn their backs around the moment you go offline. 

You Are Who YOU Behave:

Choosing the right friends and influencers make a big difference with your behaviour. 
The people you hang around with play a huge role in the decisions you take in life.
These are not only friends but also society, public figures, people you admire, people you grow up with, people you follow on social media. These can also be your parents. If you have abusive parents, chances are that you may end up growing abusive in your future life because to you that is normal as you have seen it happening to you during your childhood. 
Ever noticed how you would imitate the moves of your favorite sportsperson? That is because your behaviour and attitude as moulded you to be and do the same. 
Hence, choosing the right influencers is very important for a happier life.

DETOX Your Mind:

When you start feeling like things are not going your way and your whole world is crumbling down, you need to detox your mind. 
Stop talking to those who keep reminding you about your problems, stay away from social media, go out with a free mind and make your own decision as to what to do next without worrying as to what others will think about you. But of course, consult the people you trust like your parents or teachers for advise. For all you know, they may have the solution to your problems. This can also help you be more confident with the decision you take.

With that I end this blog by quoting Oprah Winfrey "It is confidence in our bodies, minds, and spirits that allows us to keep looking for new adventures" 
I hope my blog has come to any help in boosting your confidence. To support my work, you can follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/smile.with.nouf/ 

Comments

  1. JoyDecember 16, 2019 at 3:56 PM

    So True....i think I need to Detox my mind, once in a while🤩👍

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    1. Smile with NoufDecember 23, 2019 at 10:59 AM

      Oh yes! That will help you a lot and will keep you calmer......

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